A personal process

Sometimes it is not the suggestions

Some people get good suggestions and the dates still stall. When that repeats, what you need is not another suggestion — it is to work on the process itself.

  • Two personal sessions a month
  • Focused preparation before every date
  • Spotting the patterns that keep repeating
  • Limited places
ULTRA

What actually happens here

Not more suggestions — work on how you walk into a date, and what happens in it

Focused preparation before the date

Not "just be yourself". Specifics: what matters to the person sitting across from you, what to pay attention to this time, and what we learned from last time. Things you can apply that same evening.

From debrief — to pattern

The short debrief after every date already comes with Your Own Matchmaker. Here it becomes raw material: we gather what recurred across several dates, identify the pattern behind it, and work on that in the sessions — instead of starting over every time.

Mentoring sessions

Twice a month, half an hour. An honest look at yourself: what you bring to a relationship, what frightens you, and how you make decisions. This is the part that changes the outcome, not just the suggestions.

Who is this for?

Mentoring isn't for everyone — and that's the point

Three situations where the problem is not the number of suggestions

Dates keep stalling at the same point

You go out, and then it ends — after a first meeting, sometimes before it. When that repeats, the problem is no longer the suggestions. Here we work on what keeps recurring, until you get past that point.

Successful at everything — except this

Career, studies, friends — it all works. And precisely here it is hard to decide: every option looks reasonable, and every decision gets postponed. Here you have someone to think it through with, and to decide.

Starting a new chapter

Divorced, after a long stretch, or simply after many attempts. There is life experience, and there is also baggage — better to work through it beforehand than in the middle.

The process

Personal Mentor

Someone who works through it with you — not just sends suggestions

₪2,500 / 6 months
~₪417/month
~₪208 per mentoring session — before everything else

A short chat with Eytan — we decide together if it fits

A mentor carries only a few people at once — today that is Eytan himself. So we onboard in waves

What is included

Everything in Your Own Matchmaker
2 mentoring sessions a month — to look at yourself, process experiences, and see what keeps repeating
Preparation before every date — not general advice, but what matters with this specific person
A look at the patterns that recur — what surfaces in the post-date debriefs is gathered into one picture, and from there into focused work
A direct WhatsApp channel — for the question that comes up on the way to a date, not only in sessions
5 hand-picked matches every month — chosen personally from your flow of suggestions, not instead of it

This is a process, not a service. It works for people willing to look at themselves honestly — which is why we talk before you join.

איתן
A note from the founder

Personally — Eytan

Hi, I am Eytan. I run this process myself, which is why the number of places is limited. If you read this far and something resonated — just message me. We will talk honestly, and if it does not fit you, I will tell you so.

Usually replies within an hour

Questions about the process

With Your Own Matchmaker you get a person working for you: an intro call, a weekly proactive search of the pool, a short debrief after every date, and a commitment to 5 quality suggestions over the six months. With Personal Mentor that same person also works with you: focused preparation before every date, and mentoring sessions twice a month where what surfaced in those debriefs becomes a recognised pattern you can work on. It is not "more of the same" — it is work on something else entirely. That is also why mentoring is an add-on alongside a plan, not a higher tier.

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