Our method
Here we take the engine apart: what we ask, why, and what happens behind the scenes until a suggestion reaches you — and after.
Six stations
At every station: what happens, and why we built it this way.
Age, religious style, a few words about you and what you are looking for. You verify your phone with an SMS code, and you can stop midway and come back.
Why this way
Enough to start matching, and no more. You add depth in the Heart Map, at your own pace.
Which number can we reach you at?
Code sent by SMS
Sample
It starts with 12 questions, and you go deeper when you want. The questions adapt to the track you chose — Haredi, national-religious, traditional or secular.
Why this way
The Heart Map is what the system matches by: some answers are thresholds, and the rest go into the compatibility score. The fuller the map, the more accurate the suggestions.
Where would you place yourself?
Choose what describes you best
Sample
Every Saturday night the system rescans the whole pool and ranks it — in both directions: are you what the other side is looking for, and are they what you are looking for.
Why this way
A match in one direction is not enough. Preferences like height lower a score rather than rule someone out, and only the strong matches become a suggestion.
The system is working for you
Scanning the whole pool
Sample
Automatic suggestions go out in rounds, usually on Sunday and Wednesday evenings — that is the rhythm, not a promise. Every suggestion comes with a written reason and "What stood out to us", and you see a first name only. Beside them there are suggestions our matchmakers put together themselves.
Why this way
A written reason lets you decide on a reason, not just a photo — and shows you whether the system understood you.
A new suggestion for you
Why her?
A shared search for true partnership — friendship, growth and mutual respect. Your stability, with Noa’s creativity and optimism.
Sample
Three buttons: "Not a fit", "Interested" (saved, nothing is sent) or "I approve". You approved — and before the introduction goes on to the other side, a person reviews it. Said no? Tell us what was missing, and it sharpens the next suggestion.
Why this way
The system is good at finding. Before anyone approaches the other side in your name, a person makes sure the introduction is right for both of you.
A new suggestion for you
Why her?
A shared search for true partnership — friendship, growth and mutual respect. Your stability, with Noa’s creativity and optimism.
Sample
Contact details open only when you both say yes. The other side always answers for free, and a suggestion left unanswered for 30 days is quietly released.
Why this way
Nobody gets your details without your yes — and nobody is left waiting forever.
You both said yes
Contact details are now open to both of you.
A person walked the introduction to the other side
Good luck on the first date 🤍
Sample
Privacy and trust
How you search matters as much as what you find — especially when everyone knows someone who knows you.
It cannot be browsed and cannot be found. It is shown to the other side only when there is a specific suggestion — not before, and never to anyone you are not suggested to.
The other side knows you by your first name only — your surname isn't shown in the suggestion, the emails or the profile they see. In a small community, that is the difference.
In the suggestion, the e-mail and the profile
The system finds and explains. After your yes, a person reviews the introduction before it goes to the other side — and when you have a question, there is someone to write to.
After your yes — never before
Not a photo and a line: why this person, and why for you.
Why her, why him
You choose a track — Haredi, national-religious, traditional or secular — and the questionnaire and the matching adapt to it.
Haredi · national-religious · traditional · secular
What we check: phone verification at sign-up, an automatic quality screen of the main photo and text of everyone who registers — a profile that fails it is kept out of the rounds — and a human eye before an introduction moves on to the other side.
What we don't: background checks.
Shidduch card
From your profile you can create a tidy shidduch card — who you are and what you are looking for, in a few lines — and send it to matchmakers and acquaintances outside NeshamaTech too.
Start with the Heart MapDaniel K., 31
Jerusalem
Engineer by day, Torah learner by night. Looking for a partner to build a world together.
Signing up is free, and your first 15 automatic suggestions are completely free — even when you say yes.
